The first step in connecting with your neighbors is getting to know them by name. You may have waved, but engaging in a conversation, even over the fence, is an intentional first step in communicating that you'd like a relationship.
How
Start by getting to know your eight closest neighbors. If you are the orange house in the middle of the grid to the right, work to meet the two neighbors on either side of you, the three across the street and the three behind you. Fill in their names and phone numbers as you get to know them. Click to download the form. |
WhyPeople who live in connected neighborhoods are:
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After the initial introduction, it can sometimes be difficult to know how or when to reconnect with your new acquaintances. Our Neighborhood Connect Events and resources are intended to give you tangible steps to move past casual relationships with your neighbors, and to intentionally connect. One Joplin makes it easy! See below for more information or contact us!
Neighborhood Connect Events
One Joplin wants to help you get to know your neighbors. If you're interested in hosting an event for your block or neighborhood, click one of the links below!
SPRING
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SUMMERWatermelon Splash
Cool down with with refreshing watermelon. Have a seed spitting contest with your neighbors! |
FALL
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WINTER
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More Ways to Connect
Go For a WalkWalking is a powerful way to gain influence and presence in your area. When people see you walking, you become a “character” in the neighborhood. Take as many opportunities as possible to stop and visit with neighbors. This takes a little initiative, but it is worth the effort. As you become known in your neighborhood, you will become a trusted member of the community.
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Throw a PartyOnce you’ve gotten to know some of your neighbors, throw a party connected to a holiday, a sporting event, or just because. Make flyers and before the event hand them out, going door-to-door. Making this personal connection is the best way to ensure people show up. At the party, be sure to have a sign-up sheet for those who want to stay connected. See our Neighborhood Connect Events page for more ideas.
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Start a Social Media GroupNow that you have everyone’s information, build on-going community. A couple days after the event, send letters, an email or make calls thanking people for coming to the party. Start a Facebook group, Nextdoor group or use another form of social media to stay connected with your neighbors, share inspiration and ideas on neighboring, communicate events, barter for goods, and ask for help.
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Share a MealAs you begin to build trust with neighbors, be intentional. Invite a family, couple, or individual over for dinner or a Saturday brunch. Sharing a meal with someone provides excellent opportunities to know their story, laugh together, and share neighborhood news. You are communicating that you accept this person or family and that you are willing to be known and to know them.
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Be AvailableMaking time for others is a key part of neighboring. This requires us to slow down and be aware of the people entering and exiting our neighborhood. You can be available to your neighbors by working in your yard, getting to know the kids on the street, or spending time on your porch. If you see a neighbor outside, make it a point to talk to them.
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Serve One AnotherServing others and asking for help, is a part of neighborliness. By asking for things you need or help with a project, and by being willing to help when asked, you give others a sense that you want a mutually beneficial relationship. You may not be a handyman, but you may be able to babysit, water their flowers while they’re away, or provide tutoring. You can also anticipate needs before you are asked: pulling out trash cans, shoveling snow, or picking up trash on your block.
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